What are the problems commonly occuring in love marriage?

in india,lot of love marriages ends in a divorce,what are the real problems thats happening.lets assume the affair was deep and really understanding before marriage,whats going wrong after it.i really appreciate ones with personal experience. thank uWhat are the problems commonly occuring in love marriage?
I'm not married, and have never been, but I think the problems that arise in a marraige are the same as those in any relationship. We become complacent and stop trying. We take our partners for granted. We don't say thank you any more when they make us coffee, or tell them they look good when they do. They become part of the furniture. It's those little things that start making a relationship boring and the grass greener on the other side.What are the problems commonly occuring in love marriage?
Both type of marriages can fail.





It has always been my opinion that people in arranged


marriages stay married because of their culture and


rarely because of happiness.





They know what is expected of them and they do not


want to let their families down, or be judged by others.





Thus, they stay married even though they are not in love.





Love is blind and takes work. When people have hard times


they lose that temporary blindness and start to see things


that they find unattractive. Once they lose that attraction,


they are not willing to put forth the effort necessary to mend


the problems.





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If only we would not only recognize the true definition of love, but also act it out everyday of our lives, there would be no divorce or fighting.





We say we love, but where's the patience. We say we love , but why do we envy,


We say we love, but why do we have so much pride that keeps our vision on ourself and not our loved one. Why do we look to see what we can get out of love as apposed to giving all that we have to love. Why are we so easily provoked by our loved ones.


If we love, why do we lie. Above all why do we put limit's on love. True love there are no limits and its long suffering and endureth all.





IF only.
What goes wrong?





When a boyfriend and girlfriend marry, the forget that they were once boyfriend and girlfriend FIRST. They forget politeness, They forget restraint. They forget to listen, nurture and pay attention in the ways they did when they were on their ';best behavior';.





The second time around, I resolved to never forget the Boyfriend Behavior and I have never regretted that decision. It keeps thing fresh and new and makes for a vigorous and fun sex life.






i dont know but what i know is love is the most importante thing in the marriage .so it maybe there is another reasons but its very small coz when love is very strong there is no big problems to let them divorce .i hope that this the answer of ur question.hoping the divorce will not be the solution in india.............
If there is real love there is no problem, love marriage is also is marriage, lots of love and respect is important for any marriage,


learn to litsen each other and talk everything will be fine,
i think the main reason is just plain old boredom. boredom causes one to cheat, try new things, live a robotic life, etc. if you dont wake up thinking ';wow, i love her. shes gorgeous. i cant wait to see her'; or something like that then youre bored.
YOU ARE WRIGHT even my is love marriage, daily i am facing problem - economically, psychologically. no proper understanding with us. But still our love is strong.
Actually it varies, it could be communication for one and finance or lack of trust for another. Couple tend to grow apart after a while.



Love marriages fail only when expectations on any one side are too high. When these two behave humanely then no problems.
There are too many things to list that can cause divorce. You should give us more information.
A lot of lying.