Jealousy over husband may stem from previous failed marriage?

I have been married for 2 years to my husband. He is a very friendly, outgoing person. When we go out to a restaurant he jokes a lot with the waitresses and female staff. He has never given me any reason to be jealous but it makes me mad. I also get very jealous over the females that he works with. This is my second marriage, my first husband cheated on me with a coworker. Any suggestions on how I can get over this jealousy and insecurity and cut my husband some slack?Jealousy over husband may stem from previous failed marriage?
I believe he knows your first marriage end bcse of your cheating ex-hubby.Now be open to him.tell him exactly how you feel and that your are insecure seeing him get too close or joke that much with female.tell him you are even jealous of his female coworker.he should be able to undersand your concern and provide you with reassurance ,more than that he should be able to cut this off in order to put you at ease.If he does this than you have a even better chance to find out just how much he cares about you.


good luck.Jealousy over husband may stem from previous failed marriage?
Maybe you lack self confidence because of your divorce. Try looking for some books about marriage.





If he likes joking with women you can also joke around with men. See how your husband reacts.





I would be upset if my husband was flirting with other women. So many women will have affairs just to compete with the wife. Affairs can be like a game to see who can win.





Genuine love is wanting what is best for another person before thinking about yourself.
You should simply analyze the situation better and be more guarded with what you say and how you say it. It sounds like you are bothered by the ghosts of your past relationship and eating yourself up inside with jealous tendencies that aren't necessarily reasonable. He is a personable guy by the sounds of it and in a customer service job most likely so he is the outgoing type and your instincts are right. Think twice before saying something you regret.
Well it helps if you can get to know the people that he works with. Since it's his job and not yours that may be kind of difficult, but see if they have a face book or myspace or something like that, add them and talk to them. Making friends with them does a lot for being jealous.





As for joking around with waitresses and that kind of thing, do the same thing!
Mine is the same way. You can't change him, however you can joke along with him and laugh. Also, try to be friendly just like him and get to know more people. Do what he does.