Are womens feelings of romance triggered by cold calculations and rational assessments, even if they do not realize it ?Why is it, that women who stand to gain in a divorce, feel that marriage is romantic?
ummmmmm no.
women who question the need for marriage are the independent type that want to focus their time and energy on a career and their own stuff.
women who feel that marriage is romantic want to focus on their family and taking care of their man and kids. they don't have time to spend on a career.Why is it, that women who stand to gain in a divorce, feel that marriage is romantic?
I've never been big on marriage. I'm independent and reasonably successful on my own, but I don't think my feelings about romanticism and marriage have to do with what I would stand to ';gain'; in a marriage and/or divorce. I have been married. I married for love and I didn't gain anything in the divorce. In fact I left almost everything behind when he cheated.
I think women who are independent tend to often find those 'material' successes on their own. They tend also to view marriage as lower on the priority list because of their independence.
That's a generalization of course.
';me!';
actually, professional women with money have it worse than males with money.
fact according to men and women who research things:
The more money a male makes in relation to his wife's income, the less likely they are to break up and the less likely the wife is to have sex outside the marriage. The more education a husband has in relation to his wife, the less likely a divorce.
With successful women its the complete opposite.
The more money the wife makes in relation to the husband, the more likely she or he is to practice infidelity and the more likely the marriage is to end in divorce.
Male ';diggers'; are 20000x worse than female diggers. Way more prone to infidelity. Way more prone to ';murder for the inheritance'; etc.
I think modern women have more to worry about than us guys with money.
Anyways, if you have money, you are smart enough to know to get a prenup right? Let the middle class guys worry about getting cleaned out. They are never bright enough to prenup it.
Women's feelings are triggered by instinct. Women know that if she gets pregnant, she will be the one carrying the baby for 9 months and the father could leave as many in this country do without a second thought. Therefore, she's in a very bad spot financially because she has to take care of a baby by herself. She wants someone with stability financially so she does not have to take care of the baby by herself, and marriage is stable. If there is a divorce, by law the father has to help take care of the baby as well. It's been shown in studies that women prefer the picture of a moderately handsome man in a business suit than the picture of a very handsome man in a fast food uniform.
There are some women who take it too far and become calculating gold diggers who spread their legs for someone with money, but don't judge all of us by those standards.
I believe women question the need for marriage if they have a good job and house because they know that marriage is unequal and they will have to pick up twice the mess and take care of any children. If looked at that way, what women really wants marriage?
marriage is for co-dependants. which usually leads to counseling and problem. now that you can catch herpes from even kissing, they should make it illegal to engauge in sex or relationship without proven std tests or a court order. otherwise your disrespecting yourself and giving into sick horny men.
It might be just what you are seeing around you. Or i might be the odd one out. I don't really have much to gain from marriage other than getting to fall asleep next to the man i love. Financially there isn't much there. I make my own way. But if he asked, i would say yes. He gives me Romance. Its not about money.
I think you're generalizing, but either way, I know some independent women with good jobs and they are all married or want to be married.
The reason is no one can be strong all the time.
Why is that that 9 out 10 of your posts are bashing women? LOL. Come on life is too short for all this negativity.
This is so irrational.
There is no gain except for the lawyers. Everyone else loses
Hey. We're born with it, no one knows why.
Just accept it and live with it.
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