What Joe said is correct. It doesn't have to do with jealousy. It's about disrespecting your wife/girlfriend. Men very easily become addicted to porn and soon believe that their wives/girlfriends should look like the porn stars. Soon, it isn't enough. They start looking elsewhere trying to fulfill the fantasy they see in the porn movies. I should know, because I had to deal with this with my husband.
Also, in the Bible, it very specifically says and I quote ';But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart'; Matthew 5:28
So, yes...porn is the same as cheating or committing adultery.Watching Porn is considered cheating in a marriage, true or false?
false you must do what you believe in dont listen to your partner cause that was the only time i ever felt love i was married 10 years and never even got i love you not once im divorced now can you blame me allthough i did love her she threw me out on my ****
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false you must do what you believe in dont listen to your partner cause that was the only time i ever felt love i was married 10 years and never even got i love you not once im divorced now can you blame me allthough i did love her she threw me out on my ****
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Watching porn is almost as bad as fantasizing about someone else.
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I used to get jealous until I realized that it wasn't personal against me that he was watching it. We talked about it and now it's okay and we both can watch it togeather. As far as where the jealousy came from was the thought that I was not secure about our sexual relationship and thought he was having to go to porn to get what he wanted. I realize now that isn't the case and it's a great mood stimulator!!!
Depends on the couple. Each couple has their own boundaries and their own definition of where the line is. It's not universal.
It's something that the COUPLES have to discuss and determine, not a bunch of strangers on the internet.
That being said - it's not cheating in my book. But if it gets to the point where watching porn *takes the place of* actual interaction with the spouse, then it's a problem (even if it's not cheating).
Because the fact you are drooling over other women makes it CLEAR to her that you also fantasize about being with other women and if given the opportunity...............and seeing you INDULGE those fantasies................
Get the idea yet?
It makes her feel insecure and you do not respect or love her,else you would not want to make her feel that way.
If your wife was pretty enough to marry, then why do you need porn?
It teaches men to view women as sex toys and not human beings and no one wants to be treated like that.It will teach your kids that you are a perv,or it will teach your daughters in order to be loved, they have to be a slut who is available to be used for sex at will, it will teach your sons to treat women as things instead of persons.
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http://thepinkcross.org/
and also shelly lubben
Yes porn is a form of cheating,it is cheating without following through at the point, but it leads to making your spouse feel inadequate,unattractive,unloved and unwanted resulting in marital problems.You are not going to be able to have your porn and marriage so eventually you'll have to choose one.You will choose the porn over your wife hands down.
It's wrong if it becomes an addiction......some men replace their sexual relations with their spouse with porn....that's wrong. Porn is a fantasy world and some men don't know how to separate fantasy from reality and begin to compare their wives with the women on porn.....that's wrong to. It's not the actual watching of it that I disagree with, it's what it causes and leads to in some men that's the problem.
My husband and I watch porn together.
I don't think that watching is porn is cheating at all, but if the porn is interfering in the relationship then it is an issue. Porn should not have to be used ALL the time for foreplay and it definitely should not be used instead of being with your wife. I would also limit my viewing of porn since your wife has issues - Do you have an addiction to porn? Have you tried asking your wife to watch it with you?
It doesn't matter what we think. If your wife is uncomfortable with it, then you shouldn't do it. You shouldn't want your wife to be upset about this. It really shouldn't be so important to you that you would do it without regard for her feelings. If you can't stop, then you need to seek help. Otherwise, the respectful thing to do is to stop for her piece of mind. Many women don't like the thought because they are afraid their husbands will compare them to the porn stars. No one wants to go to bed with their mate and think that their performance and body will be judged by unreasonable standards!
False! it is imaginary, the fantasy, why would it be considered like real life cheating? i know i dont care if he does, i dont see the big deal, i do it to sometimes.
i dont understand why some people get sooo upset about it, i'd rather have him watching it on tv than actually doing it.
False.
I have stated in forums that i think it helps couples, not just men, express themselves in fantasy that doesn't damage the primary relationship. I never understood how some women get so torn up at the ideas of it---but I have no issues with it.
I didn't mind my boyfriend watching porn until he started to get out of bed every morning and watch it, when I was perfectly willing to have sex. If it begins to consume time you have together them it is kind of like cheating.
depends on the the marriage. some women are ok with it and some women are dead against it. it just depends on what YOUR wife thinks not what any other woman thinks
Watching pornography of any kind is cheating yourself out of a normal healthy life.
What she needs to do is become your porn. Some women actually like watching it with their partner.
It isn't cheating. It's a guy thing.
Gosh, I hope not, or else my hubby and me are cheating on each other together at the same time, lol. Porn can be a turn on, maybe your wife should watch with you.
Definately False.
false, but it can be offensive and hurtful if he watches it rather than be with her. like dont watch it when she could be wanting you instead.
I have watched porn because I needed To see more normal sex than kissing your hand.
I don't see it as cheating and I don't care if he watches it. I will watch it too.
Watching it with ur partner is not cheating if she enjoys it too but behind her back IS..)
I watch porn with my hubby! Its fun to copy moves and do what they do in the movie! Its so not cheating!
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