Do you believe in no sex before marriage?

I do.


You wear a white dress for a reason and your honeymoon is to have sex for the first time after getting married.


Tell me what you think.Do you believe in no sex before marriage?
I do. Yes... The white dress symbolizes purity, and that you're pretty much giving it to him on your wedding day... I'm a christian, and the bible says sex before marriage is wrong, so I go by that guideline. Its so cool [i think] to be able to give your husband your purity... for him to have, and nobody else!





its hard in this crazy world to stick up for what you believe, but I have, I have a ring that reminds me daily of what I believe. it says simply ';true love waits';.





Its cool to have somebody on here that believes that same thing! go you! :)Do you believe in no sex before marriage?
I just heard this five-minute clip last night that offers a good explanation. It talks about what many people often say against this-that people can't know if they are sexually compatible or if their sex life will be good if they don't have sex before marriage.





This is the MP3 file link:





http://download.redeemer.com/rpcsermons/…





So, yes, I do believe in no sex before marriage.





Comments on some answers below...





';For real. You don't know WHAT you may be getting (or not getting) yourself into.';





That's why you actually form and grow a relationship by getting to know your future spouse. That's why you begin to ask the deeper questions. You can find out just about everything about a person before you get in bed with them. If they are pouring their heart out to you before marriage and sex, you will know if you're relationally compatible with them to begin with.





Seriously, why go to bed with someone who's 'good' but is an all-around boring, unrelational person or simply is incompatible relationally with you?





';This isn't the ideal world though, and what I'd do before marriage might not be what you should do.';





...right, so you can do whatever you want because it's not a perfect world. I guess I should go around killing people, too, because it isn't an ideal world and what I do might not be what you should do.




I think it is unrealistic to not have sex before marriage. Then I feel like you end up getting married early just to have sex and then maybe marrying the wrong person.';

There'd be no divorces, and no abortions. Wouldn't it be nice?

This isn't the ideal world though, and what I'd do before marriage might not be what you should do. It's a matter of conscience and wisdom and of God, if you're a believer.


but for me, i dont have to worry about it. :]
Yeeeeep

It's too important a part of human relationships to be left out of the mix before you commit';


This is the problem. I will say that sex is a good part of marriage (or just life in general), but to put that much importance on it is just stupid, in my opinion.
I think that its a personal choice. White on your wedding day is a tradition regardless of whether or not you are a virgin.





Besides, in my personal opinion, there is absolutely nothing romantic about feeling like you are being ripped in half from the inside out.
I believe it is best for me. That is what I did, it's what I teach my kids. HOWEVER, I believe the bible. I am aware that others don't. I'm not going to force my concepts of morality on others nor am I going to judge those who have different ideas about sex.
I am 40 and single never married, tried 4 times, the woman just take you, it's hard to explain.





Something about a nude hottie rubbing all over you makes it impossible to not have sex.
Because it's a good choice for you doesn't make it the right choice for everybody.


Outside of fundamentalists , who want to impose a rigid set of rules on everyone, most people respect individual choice in this matter.
no..i believe in sex before marriage....as long as youre not giving it out like candy...





im pretty sure all those wearing white wedding dresses arent virgins....





and what happens if you never get married? are you not supposed to have sex at all? that would just be crazy
No, because how do you know you're sexually compatible before you get married? If it turns out you're not, i'm sure you'd increase chances of infidelity and probably divorce.
No, I think its idiotic. Its just as important to be sexually compatible as it is to be mentally and emotionally compatible.





Btw, white is just a color, kid.
No way, seriously, How do you know if you are going to enjoy each other sexually? Marriage is a middle ages concept and has ZERO to do with God
Yes I do. But whatever happens happens I think. if youre truly in love. then go ahead. but dont just do it for no reason. I think you should be in love.
I think so too!


The best gift you can


give is each other!


It's part of the reason to


get married, because


you have eachother fully,


if you have sex before marriage,


then what's the point?



For me, no. But that's fine for some. I actually believe in sex before marriage because I want to know what I'm getting into before I get married. Sex says a lot about someone I think.
Hell no, my mama told me never to marry a man who doesn't know what to do with his penis. There is only one way to find out!





Safely, of course.
Absolutely.





Also, no STDs and no unintended pregnancies.






My wife believes in no sex during marriage.
God Bless you! (You are very rare and The Good Lord smiles on you!) Yes. I believe in NO sex before marriage. Dare to be different!!
I agree with you totally. You are right on. Purity is not the majority in today's world, but it still is the right way.
I believe in sex before marriage.


I will were a white dress just because its tradition.
Same thinking.There is a probability that the marriage does not take place.
Nope. You gotta ';try before you buy';. For real. You don't know WHAT you may be getting (or not getting) yourself into.
Yes. That is the right way, neatest way, God's way.